Always Be Rejectin’

I caught up with a newish dude in my social circle. I met him a couple of years back as he used to work at the butcher shop I would swing by on a semi-weekly basis. He was a super chill dude to talk to; tons of good convos. Last year, he asked if I wanted to get together with a couple of his friends for some drinks. It turned out he was 20/21 and working while in college/university. He fooled me pretty well with his maturity. Long story short, we ended up hanging out that one evening and have kept in contact ever since. 

I would argue that as much as he is more mature at his age than his counterparts, he still has the typical early 20s dude mindset when it comes to social life and dating. This became clear from the first time I met up with him for a drink. My humble brag is that I have a social circle that spans men between of the ages of 22 and 68. This leads me to gather a ton of data points from men in different parts of their lives; yet, shows off a lot of the similarities. The MRP sidebar has shown the other side that most guys seem to miss - AMALT.

The one time I met up with him and a couple of his friends last year, I listened to their bitching about women and the “current” marketplace. I told them to stop being pussies and start approaching women; especially, for the fact they are in an environment with women all over - college. I will give my young padawan some credit here… He has taken to being more assertive and going out there to talk with women and date when he gets the chance. 

Very recently, he was telling me about his recent encounters when it came to dating and getting out there. He told me about how he was shopping and approached a woman. I heard the backstory of her, but it makes zero sense to add any of it here. Why? It doesn’t matter to the climax. He ended up approaching, making a somewhat direct compliment (which I liked, calling her ‘tasty’), had a brief convo with her, and then got turned down - hard (his words). All I could tell him was to keep on getting rejected. That’s the name of the game. Those that ‘win’ always fail at bat way more than others think. 

I am always reading OYS posts from guys who are practicing ‘game’ - going out and approaching. A common trait from guys is to overthink and over-analyze everything that happens, whether it’s a positive or negative experience. It doesn’t matter. You have to get to the point where you are immune, cool, collective, and willing to accept whatever you get. I, myself, enjoy the hi-jinks I get myself into. Why? Because for all of the turndowns and not interested ones, I get a hell of a lot of fun, engaging, and entertaining women willing to come along for the ride.

Everything is a numbers game. That includes your wife or LTR, whether you want to believe that or not… Get out there and get rejected. Try to bomb the worst way possible to entertain yourself. Who knows what happens on the other side? Put the phone down, get up and step out of your place, and open your mouth when you see people; mainly, women (or men, if that's what you are into). Get over the fear of pussy out in the wild. It’s easier than you think…