What Is MRP?

/u/redpillruminations

“MRP is about trying, failing, continual learning. Daily, at first. Then, as you progress to a certain point with consistency, the easy wins disappear. But you train your mind and begin to notice the slow shift of the glacier. You aren’t spinning out of control, shit tests become easy and fun. You see your wife (and women) for who they are - riding waves of emotion. Sex happens or it doesn’t. Your wife doesn’t matter. When you make it, you know your value and that you can share it with others at will. That’s attractive.

You start peeling back the layers and finding out who you are truly supposed to be, without the bullshit of seeking validation through external sources. You just...be. That’s where the real progress is. There is so much focus at first on power dynamics and sex, you get blinded by these barometers of progress. You think BPP is a god when he’s full of covert contracts, and it gives you a false sense of entitlement. At some point you realize none of that shit matters. You’re alone spinning on this rock and you’re here to do whatever it is you want, or need, to do. You’re responsible for yourself and yourself alone.

I’ve been taking a break to just unplug a bit and recalibrate. It’s been eye opening. I’m a value leech in this community but I’m putting on my oxygen mask and getting my shit right. I will give back when I have value to share. I still fuck up, a lot. I’m helping a buddy through the same stuff I went through and it’s incredible to have the playbook. You begin to smell bullshit so fast, laser through validation seeking behavior, and can grasp almost immediately where someone falls on the spectrum. I’m still working through being annoyed by lame, blue pill guys in my life, mostly because I know the struggle too well and want them to be better. The world is full of blue pill losers. The only thing worse is butthurt purple pill guys with just enough knowledge to self implode. I know because I’ve been that guy.

You don’t want to be here on OYS 60 with absolutely no idea why your dancing monkey routine isn’t working. You’re probably way worse off than you think. I read the same post week after week. TRT isn’t going to fix your fucked up life. Your fat wife isn’t the problem.

MRP gives you the manual but you have to apply it. I’ve heard veterans mention a success rate of 5%. It’s probably even lower given lurkers. But I’m on my way, and you should put in the goddamn effort to succeed too. What else are you living for if you find this gold and don’t invest it?

You have to take the knowledge of the sidebar and figure out your weak points, find ways to apply shit and make real progress. Internalize the material to the point where it’s second nature. Reprogram your thoughts when you’re anxious, weak, critical, to say “I’m confident in how I interact with the world.”

Once you make the shift - really believe in yourself, your progress, your value, real change can occur. You see the world around you cater to your vibe.

Fuck your feelings and your fake ego. Fuck your self-conscious cycles. Fuck posting in OYS for a gold sticker. Fuck your covert contracts. Fuck your family’s beliefs. Be you. Be confident in yourself, your value. If people around you drop off, so what? That’s how you have real frame. Because nothing else matters. And frame really is everything.”

— /u/redpillruminations